Monday, December 27, 2010

consent and comfort levels

I spoke with V, again, about my sexblogging, and she said she's really not comfortable with people reading about sexy things she does in such a public venue as this. I have deleted the posts talking about her, so if you're wondering where they went, that's what's happened.

It's dissapointing, a bit, but I firmly feel that sexy things are only good and sexy if everyone involved is comfortable with everything going on, and that includes my blogging about it.

4 comments:

Greenfaun said...

Oh well.

But yes, it's much more important to take care of the relationship that is the source of the fun sexy times than to blog about the fun sexy times. Even if it means the rest of us miss out.

Speaking of missing, I miss you! I hope we get to hang out more in the upcoming semester.
-Ross

Anonymous said...

Sorry for the irrelevant comment, but do you know that story which you linked to, about a guy hypnotizing the reader at a beach house? It contained the motif, "COME NOW YOU CANNOT RESIST MY COMMAND." I've been looking for that everywhere.

Again, sorry for the late and irrelevant comment- I didn't know where else to contact you.

Arel said...

I don't remember the title, but the author is Julian D'angelos; you can find his stuff on both the EMCSA and (last I knew) on his personal website. He uses that motif/command in most of his stories.

Anonymous said...

Alright, I've found it. Thanks!