more katy perry

So, this "ET" song she's got out on the radio (youtube, lyrics). It is a Very Bad Song. And not the "needs a spanking" sort of bad. :p It's baaaaad. The metaphor is really heavy-handed, relies on stereotypes and buzzwords, and is stretched past the point where it's useful. By the second verse, I'm like, "okay, katy perry, WE GET IT. you are having sex with a very strange guy!"

But at the same time, the song's toootally a guilty kinky pleasure for me. The bits about "wanna be a victim?" ho yeah, can I ever identify with that feeling.

Because, every now and again, I'll be daydreaming in class about BDSM, and being dominated, and I'll get horny and I'll feel... oh, like, "please dominate me, please control me, I need to be controlled, I need to be dominated, please."

It's a good feeling.

Erotic Hypnosis on PostSecret!

My reaction should probably be more like "it's about time!" but I'm more surprised. Most of you probably (maybe?) know of PostSecret, a blog to which people can mail anonymous postcards with secrets on them. Usually they're pretty dark and/or sad, and this one isn't really any exception.



For those who can't see it, it's an old-er looking picture of a hand swinging, what else, a pocketwatch, with text that reads, "My wife doesn't know about my erotic hypnosis fetish... I think she'd be way too freaked out to tell her..."

Kind of cool to see our fetish out there, but it's a sad reminder of all the people who don't have a partner for it (of the mind control persuasion and otherwise), and all those who were rejected by a partner.

Me, I'm very, very thankful to have Nauzy.